Good times, good times

Sweetie lied to me last night....was texting with some chick and told me it was a friend of his. Not good. He gets no points for that. It actually made me physically ill when I found out though. My stomach was sick all night. I've had my moments of distrust before, but this was worse. I did a good thing though. Instead of letting it go all night and being sick about it, I woke him up and asked him point blank what was going on. His explanation is plausible, but it still bothers me. We talked again this morning, and I told him exactly where I was coming from about it. That's something I never would have done before, so I am making progress.

I really thought I had nothing to worry about in that area, and it scares me that I could be wrong. I know he flirts with other girls, but this was a "hey I wanted to hang out with you" kind of message, and he had replied that he was away this week (another lie) and she clearly knew he had a girlfriend, because when he said he was with me, she wrote back "OIC". Yeah, it's like that.

Funny that this came up because Friday night he was all kinds of flipping out because OH made a remark at Happy Hour that I have nice tits. Apparently, that was disrespectful enough to warrant Sweetie beating OH's ass next time he sees him. Interesting then, that him texting to some chick in front of my face and lying to me about who he was talking to was not that big a deal. Apparently, the fact that I looked at his phone was a bigger issue. Um, don't think so, honeybuns. Women sense that shit, and I am not about to be cheated on again.

Consider my antennae raised.